What is feeding therapy? Does your child need it, and if so, how do you get it for them? Get answers from a feeding therapist to help your child!
For well over a decade a big part of my job as an occupational was doing feeding therapy with kids, mostly in peoples homes through early intervention, but also in a private school setting, too. And, over the last 5 years, there have been more emails then I can count from parents asking if their kids that were struggling with picky eating or transitioning off baby food actually need more help.
In many cases, feeding therapy is one of the best ways to get help from a specialist. While some of you have heard of feeding therapy and are considering it, I know for others it is a very new concept and may be something brand new to you. Either way, by the end of this post you will know exactly what feeding therapy is, who it’s for, and how to get to help. Plus, a bunch of other important tips, too!
What is Feeding Therapy?
Basically, in its simplest terms, feeding therapy helps children learn how to eat or how to eat better. Feeding therapists provide feeding therapy and are usually occupational therapists (like myself) or speech and language pathologists (SLP). Some dietitian/nutritionists provide direct treatment, but more often provide support with additional services for some children to manage any weight or growth concerns when it is necessary.
No matter what their background, it is important to note that “feeding” is a specialty within a specialty. Not all OT’s and SLP’S are trained in pediatric practice, and not all pediatric therapists have advanced feeding therapy education and practice either.
Feeding therapy often happens on a weekly basis, but can be every other week or once a month during a scheduled block of time, usually 30-60 minutes long. Most often, this time is spent teaching your child how to eat new foods (if they have a very limited diet) or how to eat (if they don’t know how to chew or manage food in their mouth).
But, depending on the child’s underlying challenges, you may see your child participating in sensory integration activities or completing exercises to strengthen the muscles they need for eating. Exercises will likely be things like blowing bubbles, making silly faces, or using whistles.
Before you get to weekly appointments, an evaluation is completed first, which usually consists of observing the child eat and interviewing the parent. Not very invasive at all.
After the eval, a team of professionals or the therapist that completed the eval makes a recommendation for how often feeding therapy takes place. At this time, goals are written that guide the direction of therapy. The goals are usually specific and include the parents concerns. For instance, a feeding therapy goal might be: Suzie will drink from an open cup independently 75% of the time, or Logan will eat and swallow three new foods independently within 30 days.
Sometimes, feeding therapy is done one-on-one with a child and therapist. Other times, it’s with a group of children that all have similar goals because a group dynamic can be very motivating for kids. But, feeding therapy may also be done with the parents, which is definitely the case in an early intervention setting, we’ll talk more about that in a minute.
Who is Feeding Therapy for?
While I gave you a general idea in the section above, I want to get really specific because I know a lot of you are here reading because you want to know if YOUR child needs feeding therapy. Generally speaking, feeding therapy is extremely helpful and strongly recommended if your child is having difficulty actually eating. This is most common with children that have special needs or medical challenges that may make it physically difficult for them.
Pediatrician’s usually suggest feeding therapy early on in these instances, but there are two more common situations that are often overlooked…
Is Feeding Therapy for Picky Eaters?
Well, for me to answer that question you need to know that not all picky eaters are created equal. It’s a blanket term that we use to describe any child that basically has food preferences or maybe doesn’t like vegetables, but also includes kids that gag or even throw up at the sight of new food and only have 5 foods that they eat. That’s quite a range! Obviously, feeding therapy isn’t necessary for all of them.
Feeding therapy is recommended for more extreme picky eaters that have a very limited diet and stress around trying new foods. Head over to When Won’t Eat and Extreme Picky Eating Red Flags to understand more.
Is Feeding Therapy for Toddlers?
Depending on the challenges a child is facing, infants can actually be in feeding therapy, so, just to be clear, age doesn’t matter. But, if you’re asking this question, it may be because your toddler is behind on some feeding milestones, and you’re wondering how long you should wait to see if it improves on their own.
For example, maybe your 14 month old is still only eating baby food and you’re not sure if they know how to chew. Or, maybe they cough every time they drink from anything other than a bottle. Another common concern is a sensitive gag reflex.
In any of these cases, reaching out for an eval is good thing. Your child may or may not end up qualifying for therapy, but at least you will know if they need more help. And, with any evaluation you will get some suggestions for activities to try at home, which may be all you need! To read about more possible feeding challenges check out Feeding Red Flags.
Also, keep in mind that picky eating often starts for children when they are toddlers, and that it is a normal phase. If you feel like it is getting out of control or is beyond any limits of normal, than this would be another instance that a toddler may need feeding therapy.
How to Get Feeding Therapy
At this point, you should have a pretty good idea if feeding therapy is something you should consider or not. Let’s look at your options. First things first, its always a good idea to talk to your pediatrician. They should know the best options in your area. BUT, and this is really a big BUT, if you explain your concerns and don’t get an answer that sits well with you, don’t hesitate to get a second or even third opinion. Sometimes feeding issues may seem like typical development on the surface, especially to a doctor that is getting a quick run down, which is why I want you to listen to your gut.
It’s also important to know that in many cases you don’t need a referral or recommendation from a doctor to proceed with feeding therapy. However, whenever possible it’s best to have your child’s doctor on the same page as you.
If your doctor doesn’t give you any feeding therapy suggestions, you have a couple of options you can explore on your own:
- Clinic or hospital – Children’s hospitals and many of their satellites offer feeding therapy.
- Private clinic – These may be smaller, but may be in a better location. Some privately owned clinics specialize in specific types of treatment that might appeal to you. (See the next section)
- Early intervention – For children under 3, and in some cases under 5, for children that live in the USA. This therapy takes place in your home.
- School – This is much more rare, but if your child is in a school for special needs, feeding therapy will be covered at school. In the majority of typical public schools this will not be an option.
With the first two options, it’s very important that you check with your health insurance provider about what is covered before you make any appointments. Once you know what will be covered and to find locations near you, just do a simple Google search: “feeding therapy in ‘your city””
Early Intervention is free or mostly free. I have a whole post completely dedicated to early intervention, check it out for how to get in touch with your specific state. I was an early intervention therapist for many years, its very near and dear to my heart!
Lastly, if your child is in an approved private school for children with special needs and you think your child would benefit from feeding therapy, ask the team about it!
What to Expect with Feeding Approaches
As you can imagine, there are different approaches to feeding therapy, some of which you may be comfortable with and some that you may not be. Whether you are calling clinics or have early intervention in your home it is okay to ask what type of approach they are using to help your child. There are dozens of specific, different approaches that would be much to cumbersome for me to cover in this post, but most of them can be summed up into two different categories:
- Behavioral – The traditional method of feeding therapy that uses rewards to gain new foods eaten. For example, your child may be given a sticker, toy, or electronic device for successfully taking a bite of a new food. To get another sticker, toy, or more time with the electronic device, they need to take another bite. Over time, these rewards should be phased out, although that isn’t always the case.
- Child directed – This is a more modern approach and is positive in nature. Parents are more involved with this type of treatment and there is a focus on addressing the underlying cause of the problem (i.e. sensory, medical, etc.). While this approach can take longer to see results initially, there is research that supports the effects are longer lasting. The SOS approach to feeding and Ellyn Satter’s work fall under this category. You can read more about Satter’s technique in my favorite Picky Eating Strategy.
I will be completely honest in saying that I use and support the child directed approach, but I respect parents and other therapists that choose to go the behavioral route.
If it’s important to you that your child’s feeding therapy does or does not include one of the above approaches, make sure you ask when you schedule an appointment what approach they use and the experience level of the therapists. If the clinic or therapist can’t accommodate you, then it will be best to call other facilities until you find a good fit.
Are There Other Options for Help?
If I haven’t been direct enough yet, I think feeding therapy be can great for you and your child. But, I know there are many reasons it sometimes isn’t possible, whether its due to financial constraints, location challenges, or simply not a lot of therapists being available. If that is the case, or if you want to be proactive and get a foundation of really great program in place that you can use in your home, then come watch the free workshop:
3 Keys to Turn Your Picky Eater Around
You’ll learn my 3 most basic strategies that are totally essential to making eating progress with your child. It’s packed with simple tips you can start using today! Get a seat here.
There are also a treasure trove of really specific articles and posts here for different feeding challenges. You can head to my Start-Here Guides to find the best resources for whatever feeding challenge you’re trying to help your child overcome (i.e.: picky eating, transitioning to table foods, and sensory processing).
And, if after reading this you are concerned about possible sensory issues with your child, either related to their eating or outside of it then you’ll want to stop over to sensory integration therapy to learn if it would help your child.
More on Feeding Therapy and Picky Eating
How to Get Your Child to Explore New Foods
Turning My Picky Eater Around: A Complete Plan
Sensory Processing and Picky Eating
Children’s Books to Help with Picky Eating
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Hi. I have an 18 months old who will not eating anything with a soupy or slimed texture . she just lets it slip out of her mouth almost like she doesn’t know what to do with it. He has 4teeth and is generally a pretty temperamental baby and is obviously still on purées he doesnt even like milk at all .His pedi is not concerned at all but I am worried sick seeing everyone else’s babies explore tons of new foods. I have tried so many things he still slips them out of his mouth! He is still on teething but I have to forcefully feed him. Any tips or words of advice? Thank you
Hey Saba,
That sounds like a challenge! It can be really tough to watch other toddlers make strides eating while you feel like yours is stuck where he’s at. Some oral motor exercises might be helpful in strengthening his mouth and making him more aware of where the slippery food is. You can check out some resources HERE.
Best,
Andrea
My son is 10 months today & I’ve tried him with all sorts of table foods in the last 2 months as he’s gone off purée & porridge completely. Trouble is he’s interested but just putting in mouth, chewing & spitting out. The only thing I’ve seen him swallow are raspberries & maybe a bit of banana! Am I overwhelming him with too many textures too soon? He’s down too 3 bottles & a dreamfeed
Hey Danielle,
Spitting out food it really frustrating, it can actually be surprisingly common too. You might look for some signs to see if your little one is having trouble actually chewing (that might look like using his tongue and roof of his mouth to mash food, vs. actually chewing it with gums/teeth). Our article on spitting out food might be helpful to give you more ideas. You can check that out HERE.
Best,
Andrea
I have a 2 year old grand son with down syndrome. He will not eat anything but baby food. He has a full set of teeth. But when you put anything with any consistency in his mouth he gags and spits it out. What can we do for him
Any Suggestions? We have exact similar challenge for our child?
Thanks for reaching out! That sounds like it is really frustrating for you. Addressing possible oral sensory concerns can be a good first step! Brushing teeth, tongue and the inside of cheeks regularly can be really helpful. You might also want to check out our free transitioning to table foods workshop. It’s a great resource. You can save your seat HERE. I hope that helps! Let us know if you have any questions.
Best,
Andrea
We have similar problem for my son. He is not drinking and eating anything over mouth. All feeds are through NG tube since 8 months.
Have you found any treatment for this, I know kid to kid its different.
Please let me know your suggestions on this..
Appreciate your help on this..
Thanks,
Lakshmi Kilaru
Hi Alisha! Do you have any tips for feeding cleft palate babies? … there are so many different approaches out there that is quite confusing
TIA!
Hi -any tips for an almost 14 month old (premie 12month adjusted) who will only drink during dream feeds since 5 months.
We give her straw and sippy cups during the day she’s capable of using however does not want to drink more than a sip or two while awake. Limited interest in eating all food generally but Loves any cheese ~
She’s on half dose of Pepcid for reflux
Thank you!
Jane
Ps- sorry if this posted as a reply 🤷♀️To previous message
Hi- my kid will eat anything… when she wants to. Sometimes she’ll just keep putting things in her mouth till it’s full and want to get out of her high chair and play….With a full mouth… and I find pieces of food and drool all over the place. Sometimes she’ll be hungry and completely refuse to eat or drink her bottle, and gets hangry. And sometimes she’ll just eat like a normal kid.
How do I stop the squirreling of food? And how do I get her to eat when she won’t?
Christy
I forgot to say she is 11 months old.
Hey Christy,
Thanks for reaching out! There are a few causes of kids pocketing food. From what your describing, it sounds like she may be seeking the sensory input/sensation of having a full mouth. You can try providing her with thick liquid through a straw ie: smoothie or milkshake as this works the muscles in the mouth. We do have an article, Pocketing Food Strategies and Causes in Kids, that will walk you through reasons as well as some other tips to try!
Hope that helps!
Best,
Desiree
Hi Alisha, I have an 8 month old who will not eating anything with a soupy or slimed texture (such as berries, avocado, bananas, eggs, zucchini) she just lets it slip out of her mouth almost like she doesn’t know what to do with it. She has 2 teeth and is generally a pretty temperamental baby. She’ll eat brocolli, rice and toast all day If wede let her and is obviously still on purées and milk. Her pedi is not concerned at all but I am worried sick seeing everyone else’s babies explore tons of new foods. I have tried coating things with graham crackers and she still slips them out of her mouth! Any tips or words of advice? Thank you
Hey Adriana,
Thanks for reaching out! I’d first make sure that you are providing opportunities for her to touch and explore these textures, this can have a huge impact on helping them to eat. We do also have a free workshop that is full of great information for this age. You can save your seat HERE
Best,
Desiree
Hi Alisha!!
I am so glad to find your website and thank you for all of your information.
I have a 2 and half year old toddler who only swallow purred food; she does not swallow any solid food after chewing she spit the food out of her mouth. I have informed her Pediatrician about a year ago and he told me that she will grow out of it… Now almost two years later she still doesn’t swallow her food; few days ago I told her doctor that she still doesn’t swallow her food and He told me to try some exercises such as blowing bubbles… Should we seek for feeding therapy or continue with the bubbles exercise? This has been very frustrating and I really want to get some help.
Thank you for reading and I hope to hear from you.
Trish
Hey Trish!
So sorry you are dealing with this! And sorry you are not getting much help or any referrals. I’d definitly get her checked by a specialist just to make sure there are no swallowing difficulties. You can also reach out for a feeding evaluation (typically done by an OT or SLP). We do have our free picky eating training series (closing today at midnight) but could be helpful for you for setting up mealtimes and following through with a good plan. Sign up here: yourkidstable.com/learn
Best,
Desiree
Hi, I have a15yr old son who’s picky eating started at 4yrs old. His pediatrician said” it’s all a phase he will grow out of” now at 15 on the obese side of the spectrum, low calcium levels and high cholesterol levels,teetering on the verge of pre-diabetes.
I feel guilty and scared to death! I’m a type 1 diabetic who has a system for controlling my food intake to keep my Diabetics controlled. My son seems to have bits and pieces of all types of picket eaters you listed!
Lately it seems he only eats high-carb high-fat, unhealthy foods and he over eats, snacks all day on junk food and always says he’s hungry. I know these types of foods do not full you for longer periods, like healthy choices and this is probably why he’s always feeling hungry.
After the scariest conversation I had with his Dr. about his lab results, I started a rule that he must write down every food he eats, how much and the date/time, so I can Get a better handle on his habits and eating times. I stopped buying chips and various sweets, junk food. Example I would buy the family size chips, his brother, father, him and myself would get a serving size during certain dinners I make, then he would finish the rest of the bag, by himself for a snake. During the course of two days the bags gone and he ate the majority. I’m stressed, feeling guilty for not doing more to control this and at a loss. I don’t have the first clue on how to limit then finally stop his horrible, unhealthy eating habits. I thought by speaking with him about my diabeties and about Type 2,
which stems from bad eating habits,obesity and completly ignoring all the red flags and advice thrown at you.
I’m so frightened for my son and I have to get a handle on this Now!! He’s stubborn and impossible
He says “I will” when U discuss trying new foods with him. I know his brother must back off or I’ll never get a handle on this, like most siblings your going to dig in your heals when they try to help you.
So will read and try anything and everything possible to save my boy. Please leave me your,hints,advice, encouragement because I’m lost and really need
help.
His Dr. Suggested us seeing a nutritionist, o don’t mean to be negative, I just known son, so I’m doubtful.
Hey Gayle,
So sorry you are dealing with this situation, we know it can’t be easy! I’m glad you found our site as we do have some articles that can help. However I’d start with our free workshop. This will walk you through setting up mealtimes, having a positive environment, etc. It is full of great information and place to start! You can save your seat here
Best,
Desiree
Hi Alisha and Team! First of all, thanks so much for all you’re doing! I’m about halfway through Mealtime Works and am finding it full of great information. My 4.5 year old daughter’s pediatrician is aware of her extreme picky eating and texture aversions and has recently referred us to an occupational therapist to work through some of the sensory issues. She said that in her experience, feeding therapy can actually backfire and make any feeding problems worse so recommends focusing solely on the sensory issues. I am just not sure if I agree. I have been taking this time during quarantine to do my own research (hence your class, hence reading all your posts!) and in my heart of hearts feel she needs feeding therapy. I am just not sure which options would be best: SOS feeding approach, group setting (daughter is highly sensitive, very shy, easily overwhelmed in new situations), individual setting, in-home consultation…. Can you offer any insight???
Hey Brita,
So happy you are enjoying our information! We do have a philosophy of working on both sensory and feeding together (as there are is so much overlap). Our feeding programs are based off of an SOS feeding approach. I’d look more on what may be available to you within those settings and what you think might be best for your daughter. Overall different therapists have different a philosophy. If you are looking to stick to more of what mealtime works is geared towards, looking for a therapist with SOS will be a great fit, but this method can be done in any of those settings. Typically for the in home that is with Early Intervention which is birth-3. I’d find a good therapist to get to know your daughter and see if she recommends individual or group. You can also reach out in our Mealtime Works FB group or discussion board as well!
Best,
Desiree
Hi! I’m wondering if feeding therapy is right for my daughter. She is just a little over 3 months and breastfeeds wonderfully but she will not take a bottle. She was in the nicu for the first 3 weeks of her life (she wasn’t premature just had a bad infection) and during that time she took a bottle but would refuse to latch on the breast. The day she came home it was as if a switch flipped because she wouldn’t take a bottle anymore (even the exact same ones we fed her with in the nicu) and she latched perfectly. I have tried EVERYTHING. Different bottles, different temp milk, offering her the bottle when she’s sleepy, or wide awake, I’ve tried having her dad feed and and my mom and myself, I’ve tried fresh and frozen milk, I’ve tried cup feeding, syringe feeding, pace feeding with a bottle I’ve even tried using a few different sippy cups. I feel so lost about how to get her to start taking the bottle again. Usually I wouldn’t mind just breastfeeding but I have to return back to work to help with income for a few months but I can’t go to work if she won’t eat while I’m gone.
Hey Hannah,
So sorry you are dealing with this, and does look like you have tried some great ideas. I’m not sure where you are located, but it never hurts to reach out to see if you can get an evaluation. If in the US you may be able to get an Early Intervention evaluation. Also we do have an article full on tips for Transitioning To The Bottle Hope this helps!
Best,
Desiree
I cryed when you used my sons name and him eating and chewing three new foods in a month. If i could get that for my Logan…that would be, blissful. Need to go back and finish reading now.
AWW Heather,
We totally get it!! Hope you enjoyed the rest of the article just as much 🙂 Let us know if you have any questions!
Best,
Desiree
My 2.5 year old is in OT for sensory issues related to eating and it has been a huge help so far. The work you do is amazing!
YAY Sue!! Thanks for sharing!! We love working to help our kids!
Wow! Fantastic read! As an SLP student, I would LOVE to specialize in paediatric dysphagia/feeding/lactation.
Thank you for the insightful article.
Awesome, so glad this was helpful for you 🙂 We love providing information to our fellow professionals! Let us know if you have any questions along the way!
Best,
Desiree
Any advice on bottle weaning with a 3yr old with Down syndrome? aside from the sappy cup/staw suggestions.
Hey Dani,
Here is an article with some suggestions, yes there are some tips for cup/straws but there are others you may find helpful 🙂 Check it out HERE
Best,
Desiree
Can you recommend any food therapists of your experience in New York City/Westchester area?
Hi Hayley,
We do not have anyone specific that we recommend, I’d just be looking for a therapist that has true feeding experience. I’d call around your area and talk with a few to see who is knowledgeable and uses the approach you are looking for!!
Best,
Desiree
Hi,
It’s new to me to hear feeding therapy, I’m struggling with my son 8 year old has mild autism, picky eater, never takes food in the school or outside, I tried to break this challenging behaviour, tried with all means. We aren’t providing junk foods, milk, glutamic food items, and not even packed food items. We came to know with the assessment done at the age of 1.5 years, still I’m working on it. Earlier he loves to et only tiffen very particular towards idly and dosa, so slowly we have make him to take fruits and veggies and slowly towards rice. He is not eating anything apart from home
Strictly no outside food too
Pl help me how to change this behaviour.
Checked several times with pediatrics, but they suggest to treat only with medicines.
He is going to OT . Pl suggest how to overcome the same. Few exercises pl
Hi, We understand how challenging this can be and hopefully you are getting some advice from your OT that you are seeing as well!! I’d recommend our free picky eating workshop, to really look at changing of mealtimes and decreasing pressure over foods, so that everyone feels more at peace! You can learn more and save your seat here
Hope this finds you well!
Desiree
Hello,
My wife and I are desperate for some help. Our 3 1/2 month old daughter has some major feeding issues. She doesn’t breastfeed and is a very difficult bottle feeder. She had a tongue and lip tie, we’ve gone thru speech therapy, physical therapy, cranial sacral therapy, chiropractors. It is getting so hard on my wife especially, who’s home with her all day. She will occasionally take a max 2 oz at a time. But she takes FOREVER to finish a bottle. Her tongue muscles are very weak. We do the necessary exercises that our speech therapist gave us. Things just aren’t getting any better. Does anyone know any specialists in the Chicagoland area?
Hi David,
I’m so glad that you reached out. I totally get how frustrating this could be! I see that you have looked into a lot of different therapies. Have you looked into getting an OT evaluation? You can do this through Early Intervention or outpatient as suggested in this article. I would just look for a feeding specialist specifically. These can be speech therapists (so your speech therapist may have this training)? But can also be an occupational therapist. Feeding will take some time to really work, so also think about how long you have had the speech therapy and definitely reach out to your therapist about your concerns.
Hi – I am in need of some help. My son was just declined services from IU. He is currently getting feeding therapy from EI 3 hours a week. Is there anything I can do to continue services? He is 3 and only eats purees.
Oh I’m so sorry, it really depends on the state. You could look at your private insurance and see what they cover and take him to outpatient.
This seems relatively minor compared to other challenges that young children face, but my 14.5-month-old refuses to drink anything other than milk – no water, no juice – and has made next to no progress in moving away from bottles. I wouldn’t worry much about it, except that she only seems to drink milk for hunger (or comfort-she stills nurses a couple times a day), not thirst, and she has chronic constipation. We have to give her Miralax every day. And we think it is due to too-low fluid intake (it’s much lower than the guidelines I’ve seen). Is this something that we should see a feeding therapist about?
Oh, and thank you!! 🙂
To be honest, she probably won’t qualify, but I think getting an eval is always a good idea, at the least, you’ll get some specific tips for her.
Hello ,
I’m so happy I found this page , I thought my son was the only one . I’ve been searching for answers to which I thought was only a problem with my son . He is a problem eater , he is about to be 5 yrs old on Tuesday and I’ve been struggling with his eating since he was about a year old . He had no real interest in foods , has ALWAYS been extremely picky . His ‘food inventory’ has been getting smaller and smaller . Some Foods that he would eat before, he won’t touch anymore . He has a huge anxiety about being presented with new foods/meals and has anxieties when events at school come up where they will be taking foods . When all the other kids are excited to being treated to foods, he will come home saying he doesn’t want to go to school because there will be snacks or food for them . I had been hoping for past few years that the feeding issue would naturally resolve on its own .. but it’s just gotten harder . Not to mention the comments I receive from people about him not eating like everyone else as if I’m not doing my job as a mother . I have a 6 month old and can absolutely tell the difference from when my 5 yr old was this age. My 6 month old already wants to grab all foods in front of him and my eldest was not like that, still isn’t . I’ve tried bribing my son to take just a bite of any new foods and that’s only worked very few times . How do I find a feeding therapist near me? We have Kaiser as his doctor told me they don’t have that .
Thank you so much
Hi Michelle, I know how frustrating it can be. Know that you’re not alone and this is an issue a lot of people face. I have a post about feeding therapy that you can check out here. There is some info and links in there on how to get feeding therapy. Also, have you been able to watch my free workshop: 3 Keys to Turning Picky Eating Around. I think it could be helpful for you as well. You can sign up for that here.
I think I’m the one who needs feeding training. I’m not sure how to move up the scale from soft foods to harder to chew foods…how do I know when my baby girl is ready?! She is pretty good about eating foods….but I’ve never had the best diet and am not really sure what exactly to feed her…help she’s 11 months old…I can get into more detail if I could email you
Cheryl we have an article that’s perfect for you at How to Transition Your Baby to Table Foods, it breaks down the steps!
I am an OT and looking to get some additional feeding training. I’ve heard the SOS feeding trading is the best, what do you suggest? Is that a good one or would you recommend another? Thanks so much.
I would highly recommend the SOS training!
great article. I have a 14 year old who I always thought was “just picky” but now hes a slow slow grower and he just strated feeding therepy
Hello! How is the treatment going for your teen? My daughter is 12 and we are seeking food therapy.
My nephew almost 12 months old now has had reflux all his life and we have done all investigations from blood tests to endoscopy to rule out any physical causes and all are normal but he refuses to eat anything infact does not even open his mouth…moves his hand to cover his mouth whenever you try to feed him..only breastfeeds and takes fluid but no semisolid or solid foods….seems no one is able to figure out what is wrong with the child. Although his wt and ht are within normal limits, he is very vertical difficulty to feed. What are your recommendations for this refusal problem. I hope to find a solution..thanks
Hey Anish,
We understand how hard this can be but you are great for looking for resources to help! First I’d make sure that the reflux is under control. Also I’d work on him self-feeding so that he feels in control over his meals. You can read more about that HERE. Also if you are interested you can save your seat HERE in our free picky eating workshop, to learn more tips.
Best,
Desiree
Anish, did you ever get any solutions for your nephew? My babe is about to be 12 months and sounds identical to what you described! He won’t put anything into his mouth except his bottle! When I force something into his mouth he spits it out and makes a face like something very sour is in his mouth. I have been trying to get an appointment for a food therapy Evaluation but have been unable to get one so far. Just wondering if your situation was resolved and if so what helped your nephew!
I am very concerned my niece of 10 years of age does not want to eat, because she is scared that she is going to throw up she had a very bad experience where she threw up after eating some hot Cheetos and she threw up all over her mom and then she saw one of her classmates throw up in front of her and ever since she is scare that she is going to throw up. She has lost a lot of weight. I am very concerned because she is starting to have bad breath as well. Please help.
This is something that feeding therapists are quite familiar with. I have additional tips in 5 Reasons Kids Don’t Eat, that I think will be helpful, as well as a free workshop you all can watch.
That is emetophobia, not a developmental or sensory issue. I have been emetophobic for more than 20 years. It affects my life in a huge way every day. Definitely talk to her mom about seeking some sort of help.
Although it may sound strange, some eating issues can stem from infection and is not behavioral at all, but rather neurologically based due to brain inflammation. Please look up and alert parents to the possibility of PANS/PANDAS. We experienced this with my child where he refused to eat many foods and would throw his dinner on the floor; he was also quite irritable. As a psychologist, I immediately tried many behavioral strategies that were ineffective. It was only when we tested and treated for strep throat (and took blood work as well) that he spontaneously recovered from his disordered or picky eating.
Thanks for sharing this! Recently, I’ve become aware of a few cases of this occurring. It’s definitely something to consider.
Hi MD, How did you treat the strep throat?. My son gets sick with strep throat a lot and we used antibiotics but his eating habits are still bad. He refuses to eat any food as well. What did you do to get your son eat? Please help. We are desperate to get him
Eat.
Hi, I ran across your post and decided to look up the PANS/PANDAS because my son has major issues with feeding. My son has almost every symptom of PANS. What type of testing has to be done to find out if a child does have PANS? What if they test negative for strep throat? Could they still have PANS without having strep throat?
Hey Meredith,
For any medical diagnosis I’d run it by your pediatrician. They will be able to let you know if they can do the testing or if you need a specialist!
Best,
Desiree
Hello! I am actually a student who is very interested in occupational therapy and feeding therapy. I have been searching and researching to learn more about feeding therapy, especially from therapists who can help me understand more about the day-to-day life of a feeding therapist. I know this might be a stretch, but I would love to talk with you about your experiences if you be willing! I have recently graduated with a Bachelor’s and plan to go to OT school in August. I am just searching for more advice before I commit to 3 years of school. I understand if this is not possible. Thank you for considering! Please just email me privately if you would not mind talking with me.
Thanks.
Hi mam,
What is the best ways to teach a child to blow?
I know a child who does not at all blow and even does not puff his cheeks out.
He is already 4 years old.
It can be really tricky, I’d start with cotton balls and demonstrate 1000 times!
My son has a g tube for eating, he dose not eat , he only drinks water. And we had a swallow test for him and everything was good. He has been retching/ vomiting more often. We make his food.
I’m so sorry Keith. Are you in feeding therapy?
I am concerned about my granddaughter who is 2&1/2 and wont eat table foods at all. She drinks alot milk, eats snac foods but very limited. Will have a pouch with pureed food but only the sweet ones, but cookies, candy, ice cream, cake- no problems getting her to eat these. She is however healthy and right where she needs to be on growth charts and very smart. Her mom and dad are not as concerned, but to appease me, plan to get their doc’s opininion, who has told them in the past that she gets all the nutrition she needs from milk, which I disagree with, what is your opinion?
This is so tricky Charlette, based on what you’ve told me I’d definitely want her to get a feeding eval. In the states this is free and they come to your home for kids under 3, you also don’t need a prescription, the parents can call. What I’d be most concerned with, is that she has some underlying challenges that can cause extreme picky eating as she gets older. I’m sure she’s growing, because she does get enough calories and fat from milk, but she isn’t learning to eat. I hope this helps!
Hi Alisha,
I just found your blog. My 23 month old has been going to feeding therapy since she was 16 months old and I’m getting very frustrated. I’ve seen very little improvement and I’m questioning the effectiveness of what we’re doing. She is still primarily eating purees for meals with little to no table food (veggie straws and ritz peanut butter crackers are some of the few finger foods I can get her to eat). She was eating a few bites of toast, but we had a set back and she won’t even eat that anymore. If I put any food on her plate at dinner she will immediately take it off of her plate and put it on mine. Her therapist uses a child-driven approach. I’m at my wits end and I’m not sure where to go from here. Should I be concerned that her current therapy isn’t working? Is there something else I can do?
It’s definitely something to consider and I always tell parents to trust their gut. Do you know if this therapist has a lot of feeding experience? I would expect to see more progress at this point, it has been quite a while. Child directed is great, but specific interventions and strategies are usually needed to, are you seeing that? Do you have specific things to be doing at home? If this is early intervention based services you can request a new therapist, just make sure they have feeding experience.
Also, there are some really helpful articles on here too that can help with some of her challenges. Let me know if you need some direction on that front.